LoVe

Someone once told me, "You have to love the person he/she wanted to be loved, not the way you wanted to love them." I pondered on that thought and never seemed to understand it till now.

Should we try to love another person the way he/she wanted to be loved? Or love the person however way we wanted to and thinking that they should understand?

It probably would be quite lonely and insecure to be in a relationship where the person loves you the way he/she wanted to and expects you to understand. All the guessing and trying to convince yourself will eventually exhaust everyone involved.

How have you been loving your love one? The way he/she wanted it? Or the way you wanted it? Have you been listening to his/her requests? Or you chose to ignore them?

Although I understand it now, actually capable of doing it is another thing.

Listen with your heart.

閉上眼，往前走

總是要等到失去以後，才懂得珍惜。
總是要等到失去以後，才了解當初的猶豫是因為不懂得知足。
總是要等到失去以後，才知道沒有他的生活你能過得更好。
總是要等到失去以後，才明白，一個人更快樂。

該放手的就要捨得放手。世界這麼大，必然有你我容身之處。人生路還那麼漫長，沒有誰少了誰就不能活的事。閉上眼，往前走，前方還有很多美麗的風景等著你。。

Why do I have Deja Vu? Oh, that's because I was there.

生日快樂，老巫公

最近，好忙。呵呵呵。。又搬家了，又再是要放棄一些東西的時候了。

已經一年了。嗯，還不錯。發展的机會很高，要好好加油。

老巫公，生日快樂啦。特意在你生日百忙中抽空給你聲祝賀，還沒把你遺忘。希望你呀，快點找到對像唷！老先生。不要忘了我們的約定唷！嘿嘿。。

夜。思。

夜深了，人靜了，你睡了，夜貓子，還在活動著。

只想寫寫東西。發生了好多事，卻好像什麼事都沒怎麼發生過。太忙了，所以沒有時間慢慢去在每件事上花上太多心思。有好，也有壞吧？

最大的幾件事，該是：阿母，跌傷了腳；他腎結石進了急診室，不過已經康復了；Nancy 現在還在醫院；Mark 的心臟手術成功。

小小瑣瑣碎碎的，比如：經理被炒；我搬家；開始了兩個跳舞班；答應了當人伴娘；看了 Chris Tomlin 的演唱會；開始學習教導主日學班；收到了一個 Zojirushi 的飯鍋，等等。。好多好多。

健康，很重要。其他的，都是次要。感謝身邊弟兄姐妹的幫助與關愛，感謝，您。